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Why Do We Keep Getting Stuck in the Same Draining Conversations?

THE 5-MINUTE MARRIAGE PATTERN CHECK
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You start a conversation you thought would be simple.

Then somehow you’re explaining yourself again, one of you gets defensive, or someone goes quiet.

And you think, “How did we end up here again?”

In just 5 minutes, discover the Conversation Hijacker that takes over when things get hard and get one clear move to use before it pulls you both into the same old frustrating ending.

No figuring out who’s right or wrong.

Find your Hijacker. Catch it earlier. Change how the conversation ends.

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WHAT YOU'LL DISCOVER

1. Meet your Conversation Hijacker

See the pattern you tend to slip into when a conversation starts going sideways.

2. See how the loop keeps going

Understand how your move and your spouse’s response can keep pulling both of you towards the same old frustrating ending.

3. Know what to do next

Leave with one simple response you can use the next time you notice your Conversation Hijacker showing up.

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Verrill & Charlene

Married since 2013. Building side by side since 2011. Husband-and-wife founders of Covenant & Vows

We help married individuals stuck in the roommate season, where you still love the person you married and the marriage still works logistically, but you miss feeling close to them.

We help you spot the patterns that keep pulling hard conversations into the same old frustrating ending and find your way back to each other, even if you’re the only one ready to begin first.

Certified Marriage Mentors · Certified SYMBIS Facilitators · Certified PREPARE/ENRICH Facilitators · Certified PREP 8.0 Facilitators